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Got softly rejected by my crush

Anonymous ID:MN0PVzx9 Wed 28 Aug 2024 00:03:14 No.21099699 View View Reply Original Report

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>haven't been on a date in close to 2 years
>been out of a relationship for over 3
>asked my crush if she has a boyfriend
>she says no but she's not looking for one
We all know what that means. I thought she might kinda like me too :/

Anonymous

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Anonymous ID:SqjruPFq Wed 28 Aug 2024 01:24:32 No.21100074 Report

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Anonymous

Anonymous ID:2OhslAh+ Wed 28 Aug 2024 01:25:48 No.21100080 Report

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>>21099699
>>21100074
same person
resetted router

Sage

Sage ID:yzlUpQhu Wed 28 Aug 2024 01:26:19 No.21100084 Report

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>>21099699
>1pbtid

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:MN0PVzx9 Wed 28 Aug 2024 03:58:43 No.21100711 Report

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>>21100080
>resetted router
No. Months ago I had a temp b& on /biz/ and a router reset didn't work.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:3ZbqV5Wu Wed 28 Aug 2024 04:02:14 No.21100720 Report

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>>21099699
nice dubs. Sorry to hear that anon. I havent bothered persueing a female in years. none interest me enough to persue. idk if its me thats getting pickier or the selection is getting shittier overall. didnt help I moved to a smaller town with less people per 20miles.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:HJFe0LKC Wed 28 Aug 2024 04:10:23 No.21101091 Report

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>>21099699
>asked my crush if she has a boyfriend
dont do that. just invite them out to a social event, have drinks and fuck them

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:hYuBJkjk Wed 28 Aug 2024 04:12:40 No.21101101 Report

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>>21099699
You people have crushes?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:MN0PVzx9 Wed 28 Aug 2024 04:17:35 No.21101110 Report

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>>21101091
>dont do that
Ok, why? I thought I was being polite by not assuming she was single.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:HJFe0LKC Wed 28 Aug 2024 04:21:33 No.21101118 Report

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>>21101110
because you're applying pressure and making the situation awkward for them. they'll shut down even if you have a chance.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:MN0PVzx9 Wed 28 Aug 2024 04:26:12 No.21101130 Report

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>>21101118
I see. Do you think I should try again in a few months? Would asking her to coffee be better than a drink since that's even less pressure? Or would drinks be a better indicator if she liked me? I think I get the pressure thing now.
I've caught her staring at me multiple times and always thought she liked me which is why I asked her in the first place.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:MPgqDwuF Wed 28 Aug 2024 04:35:41 No.21101159 Report

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>>21101130
>I've caught her staring at me multiple times
be seen with another girl, examine the results

Anonymous

Anonymous ID://QjVHHy Wed 28 Aug 2024 04:39:15 No.21101170 Report

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>>21099699
Strumming my pain with his fingers,
Singing my life with his words,
Killing me softly with his song,
Killing me softly with his song,
Telling my whole life with his words,
Killing me softly with his song.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:MN0PVzx9 Wed 28 Aug 2024 04:39:42 No.21101172 Report

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>>21101159
>be seen with another girl
Ouch... doubt that would ever happen.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:wtcRUwkO Wed 28 Aug 2024 04:47:23 No.21101183 Report

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>>21101110
the collective minds of humanity have been effectively fried by constant interrupted internet access. in the case of women if they are above a 5/10 in looks they already have at least 20 other men trying to get their attention. the concept of courting is pretty much dead and women only respond to emotionally unavailable men because it is something different than the usual other 20 men constantly begging for attention.
what women lack in strength and intelligence they make up for in pure instinct. they can smell desperation on you.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:MN0PVzx9 Wed 28 Aug 2024 04:58:33 No.21101223 Report

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>>21101183
So what you're saying is:
>be seen by her as much as possible
>but ignore her 100% of the time
>get noticeably more /fit/ over the course of a few months
>randomly ask her to coffee/drinks when she least expects it
Something like that? I'm 6'3" and she knows I have a very good paying job, but I don't have a 6 pack (yet).
Also if I do meet someone else I will loose interest in her. The thing is I haven't met anyone else in a while. But yeah I just gotta create options for myself. The problem is I don't have the motivation to now. Ultimately I guess this at least lit a fire under my ass to start lifting again, so I'll spend the fall and winter getting more muscular and try to meet someone else in the spring.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:wtcRUwkO Wed 28 Aug 2024 05:06:29 No.21101247 Report

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>>21101223
being /fit/ doesn't even matter all that much in my experience. last gf I had I was a fat fuck alcoholic and we banged constantly for a few months. ironically after we broke up I got /fit/ then haven't had a gf since.
just focus on yourself honestly, the best person you can do things for is you. I wouldn't ask her out again for a while but just casually ask if she wants to grab a drink sometime. keep some booze around your house and if you can get her to agree to a drink see if you can get her to drink at your place after you have a couple. if she agrees you know she trusts you and if not just go ask some other bitch for drinks next time.

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Anonymous ID:MN0PVzx9 Wed 28 Aug 2024 05:19:14 No.21101281 Report

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>>21101247
>just focus on yourself honestly, the best person you can do things for is you
When you say
>>21101183
>they can smell desperation on you
I think if I were in the best shape of my life it would make myself appear less desperate if I look like I can get any woman I want. Plus I should build muscle because it would be wrong to accept mediocrity. Thanks Johnny Canuck.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:qbXEfq6E Wed 28 Aug 2024 08:44:00 No.21101721 Report

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>>21101172
faggot, give me her insta and i'll take care of business

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:MN0PVzx9 Wed 28 Aug 2024 11:54:50 No.21102249 Report

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>>21101721
I don't know it. I block all social media sites on my router so I can't look it up anyway.

Anonymous

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Anonymous ID:6/GIX58w Wed 28 Aug 2024 12:40:57 No.21102360 Report

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>>21099699
I’ve never had a gf, not for lack of trying

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