>>21225229The born again virgin stuff is even worse that whores. It's peak cringe.
S tier: wife lost virginity to you, she still has high libido
A tier: wife lost virginity to you, her libido is lower now
B tier: wife had a slutty phase, you had a slutty phase, she still has high libido
C tier: wife had a slutty phase, you had a slutty phase, her libido is lower now
D tier: wife had a slutty phase, you didn't, she still has high libido
F tier: wife had a slutty phase, you didn't, her libido is lower now
The born again virgin stuff is firmly in F tier. You get literally nothing from the relationship. Is it even a relationship if you can't relate to each other on anything? You are as different from each other as it is physically possible to be. Every man who came before got more from her in exchange for less. You may as well be different species.
>>21225257I don't expect unconditional love. If I start treating her like shit then it's perfectly fine if she stops loving me. The problem isn't that women don't love unconditionally, it's that women treat fuckboys better than their husbands. They give their best years to fuckboys, they have their most intense sexual experiences with fuckboys, they expect nothing from fuckboys. The husband is expected to do everything for her, but by the time she's finished with the fuckboys she has nothing left to give the husband.