>>21239852>I have family, friends, I played music, I like videogames, I was athleticwhat needs to be fixed here? From my prospective it looks like you have a decent life and are doing things fine
if you’re lonely that’s okay, but that doesn’t need to be “fixed” because it’s not a problem just a state of being.
My worry is that going into a relationship with the idea that “this is going to fix me” is setting yourself up for disaster, because if the relationship doesn’t work out you are going to end up in a much worse place mentally than where you are now. You get into a relationship because you want to know more about the other person by spending time with them. Creating a relationship requires you to not think about yourself every now and again, so starting one based on the idea that you’re doing this for yourself is not great. Don’t take this to mean that you shouldn’t try at all, just that I hope for your own sake you reevaluate your priorities
