>>21326174I think on some level they know what they're getting into. In the 00s, I met a German woman on ICQ. I went over there and nutted in her every day for months (because I had Summer off at Uni). Eventually go back to Uni and she broke it off, she wanted to chase after some "Musician" and I thought whatever. Then I got writing to her younger sister and ended up fucking her the following Summer. It was a bit of weird dynamic, but my "exe" didn't care, and would even make jokes about it. By that Summer the older sister had gone through 4 different guys (according to the younger sister). Fast forward a few years and the older sister convinced her to break up with me because she thought that she should try different guys, that she was "missing out". By this time, I'd somewhat bonded to her and she never completely cut off contact (hedging her bets). Anyway, younger sister did reach out to me again (after having two failed relationships, at this point I wasn't attracted to her). I talked to her out of curiosity, she said when the older sister hit 30, she got engaged to a guy. And this guy was a school friend. Like we're talking early childhood school friend. And I'd actually met the guy 10 years prior, she was making "jokes" about sex in front of him (and embarrassed him) and he just took it. And being that "friend" that was waiting around for years, he also likely knew just how many different guys before him had fucked her. What's worse is that she "jokingly" referred to him as her "IT guy" because he would do shit for her like solve any technical problem for her for free, just to spend time with her. It's very hard to feel sorry for such a guy. I mean, if he was a lot younger, I can assume he's just naive or desperate. But since they were both 30 and he knew she started fucking at 15, that's half her life she took other men's dick while he just waited around. Should we really be surprised then that women go on to cheat on these men in these marriages?
