>>21350994You feel that you need someone else (external) because you're not whole (internal)
But only when you fix the internal and become whole that you will get the external stuff unless you're born into it
You're not whole because 5% of yourself is your conscious (ego), the rest is unconscious (self)
This is a modern problem because modern society lacks vehicles for inner work (rituals, etc) so there's a disconnect between our ego and self
Read Inner Work by Robert a. Johnson, easy book based on Jung and he tells you everything you should know