>>21443291>its a vague belief but i feel warm even where the blanket is not when i pray,Well I think that is all what matters then.
> psalms versesPsalms are very powerful. They helped me a lot in the past with suffering psychologically from traumatic experience.
>a job Well I prefer conversing with NEETs, but if you need that sort of slavery in your life of having a job, who am I to raise an objection.
> feeling less immature at where i am in lifeI think immature behavior in adults is mostly caused by unprocessed trauma, maybe there is something to unpack there. That being said I think it is entirely unnecessary to get rid of quirks or personality as long as it doesn't cause you suffering.
> i would like to achieve I am not really that into generic life achievements, so I can't comment. I don't think life is about materialistic "goalposts" of achievement. I don't feel it's like a video game,
But I think your friend is right, your situation is no reason to be excessively hard on yourself.