>>21566095I grew up in a wealthy white neighborhood.
Like top 1% wealthy. Big houses, wrought iron fences, private police force, no minorities, in a major city, not a suburb.
I went to a private high school. Everyone I hung out with went to private schools, or the one major public high school in an independently-funded enclave.
White girls who grew up in these neighborhoods are a shitty value prop.
They all grew up in these huge houses. Grew up with a maid. Mom didn't do work around the house.
Most of them drove current model year SUVs that their parents bought them.
They all went to state and private universities and their parents paid cash tuition.
They mostly studied nothing. Got out of school. Job in marketing, fashion, interior design, whatever.
Their entire plan is ensnaring a man with a high-paying job as a doctor, lawyer, private equity guy, real estate tycoon.
All of their girlfriends have big, hyper-involved $75k country club weddings; they want that, too. They don't do housework. They constantly want to spend money on new cars every 4 years, new clothes, beauty/cosmetic treatments, redesigning rooms in the house, landscaping overhauls.
They offer zero input on difficult decisions, ones with potentially negative outcomes; that's your job.
At the end of the day, the only thing you're bidding on is their eggs.
They know they hold the key to white, well-to-do children, and that you want it, so that your kids can live that life. They don't have to offer up anything else, and they know it.
No real point here; just offering up some insight.