>>21608722>This whole sub forever makes me laugh because the answer is ALWAYS, and I mean ALWAYS just, "talk to them about it." These faggots run to the internet instead of just communicating with their spouse and wonder why their marriage is in shambles. Absolute retards.one of my main realizations when being exposed to normies from age 18-25ish was the fact that they pretty much cannot talk to anyone about any uncomfortable subject, like 70% of their difficulties are around this. They rather gossip about it, let it build up, avoid it, detach from the person, etc... they cannot tolerate minor differences, differences in opinion, or what they think other people might think. they feel a lot of shame and discomfort, they dont like confrontation or anything that causes awkwardness
By the same token, they also "make friends" with people they know absolutely nothing about, because for them, the pleasantness of the social experience is almost everything. They will go on believing 100% that their shallow acquaintances are their lifelong friends, and then wonder why they're not compatible or fell out after having a fight about something extremely minor.
So "have you tried talking to them about it" is legitimate advice for them, for the most part, they've genuinely never heard or thought about this before. they've been relying on instincts this entire time. To them, this is comforting advice is given by calm, rational and experienced internet masters that remove stigma from asking Steve about the jar of cheez whiz