>>21644570Have you asked a romantic interest or three to a date? And then just went out with them to have a good time - not putting pressure on yourself to create some perfect moment to force her to be your girl friend for ever?
That's a good place to start.
If you want to lose weight - eat less. It will suck. It will hurt. It will feel terrible. But that's how you do it. Working out is how you get in shape. Do both and you get in shape while losing weight.
Pick one thing and try first. And if at first you don't succeed - try again. And if you get really down talk to a friend about it. With real words and emotions.