>>21654565>Love bombing as fuck we were supposed to go some excursion next week. The lovebombing is usually what make you believe 'this is the one!' because they agree to everything you say, share all your interests, ok with any efforts and they are rushing you at the same time for X (could be anything, but mostly commitment), sweet talkers, compliments, attentions, jealousy and everything is rushed out and then.. all vanish like a popped bubble, the more you were convinced it was love, the more hurt you will be, and the best ones at that are bpd
>Was she bpd or shif like thatprobably, but from my experience with those they usually end it over something silly to make it as if YOU were the bad person and thus that's why she ended it, so she can justify that to herself that she's not a bad person and you were and others are, some sort of self defense mechanism. once that silly thing happens, she will cling into it and double down on it and you are left with two options: submit to her over something silly only for her to pull the same thing again over another issue, making your life hell, or things ending and you are the bad person.
>I still feel very much confused and emotionally abused just monthYeah it hurts, I had few bad exp with bpd but one of them alost ruined my life, took me almost a year to get back and until now I still feel something was damaged in me that time. That's why my advise to the other anon to never rush, EVER, observe and go with the mindset as if she's not your girl yet and keep expectations low
