It's starting to annoy me. He keeps messaging me saying stuff like "I should've done this or other stuff like "he had so much life left to live" no he fucking didn't

Maybe I just don't empathize at all it's affecting my mental health negatively and I just want it to stop I'm not a fucking therapist

Seems like all he wants to do is feel sorry for himself. I am constantly expecting my parents to die. He thought this was unexpected but he's been smoking and drinking his whole like and he's like 55.

"I should've helped him take care of his mother" yeah you should have how is that my fucking fault and why do I have to listen to you feeling sorry for yourself..

He isn't exactly the greatest guy but could be worse I just don't want to deal with his emotions it's not my job and idk what to say to him