>>21859606My prior relationship, my ex gf liked rough sex. At first it was just hair pulling and handcuffs on occasion which was alright. But eventually she wanted me to leave bruises on her which I knew that she could then just go to the cops and have me arrested. Major red flag.
Rough sex good, violence in the bedroom bad. She also hated when half way through intercourse I'd whisper in her ear and ask if she was alright. Being dominant is fun, but if she wasn't having a good time them I wasn't either. And yet the care somehow ruined sex for her in the moment...?
Part of that is why I put little effort into finding another relationship.
