Is it now taboo to approach women outside of online dating?

I only know one person who got laid from online dating, she was 15 years older than him and ugly..

>8 pack, work out every day
>6 figures in a respectable job
>good face, green eyes and strong jaw
>admittedly 5'9, dont know if that disaluqifies me..

And I only got likes from morbidly obese women. I know plenty of other seemingly normal men who only had the utter bottom of the barrel options when doing online dating

What psyop is this??