>>22006745The gym is good for your self esteem and appearance. Good for you spiritually too.
Chicks love a guy who’s fun though, but most importantly they go for a guy who is around. Women’s’ attraction is based on situational stuff far more than immediate experience (think a cute guy helping her fix her sink).
So you gotta figure out fun shit to do. Memorize a yoga routine. Invite some chick to go hike with you somewhere to see the sunset and do yoga during the sunset.
Invite them to a party. Invite them to a bar. Invite them over for game night. Invite them over to cook some bad ass shit (help you cook). Show up at some chick’s door you know unannounced with fresh pizza, stand in the doorway and when she answers the door with surprise say “It’s pizza time, baby”.
That shit seems stupid and performative to us guys, and it is to a degree. However, women love it. If you can do a bit of shit like this you’ll have a gf and be getting laid in no time.