>>2201705You see it that way because you have no experience or frame of refernce.
Being self reliant takes a certaon amount of time or income, it's not about balancing it, it takes a minimum amount to achieve, and for most people that us full time work. It's not about focusing on wealth building instead of peace and wonder, it is literally a requirement to live.
I hope you have rich parents that die young and your the only child, otherwise you have a real shock coming
