>>22023389>if we do end up having a boy I do not plan on raising him with toxic masculinity or anything like thatThat sentence is very revealing, I think. Reading between the lines, it sounds like the girlfriend is no longer able to delude herself in to thinking her boyfriend has any shred of masculinity. It also reveals that she is certainly a shrieking harpy, but that's just a shit test in the first place, so he also failed there because he's actively accommodating it.
I guess what I'm trying to say is, I don't think it was strictly that he cried, more that him crying was the straw that broke the camel's back. Dudes saying "You can NEVER cry in front of a woman" misunderstand. You can never cry in front of a woman if you already don't project strength and masculinity. The OP can probably still get sappy about his vidya music or whatever, but his post tells me that he needs to get his house in order and man up generally. Probably with the next foid, his current relationship is over realistically speaking.
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