I met a girl off Tinder and lost my virginity at 20 years old and now I'm in a relationship sorta even though I'm not rly committed. Never told her that I'm a virgin, when she asked I lied, and was helpful with me learning about sex. I'm pretty autistic and I think she asked me once or twice if I am. I get if you're disabled or very physically weak but I do think it's mostly just mental. You just need to have decent enough looks, know the right things to say, and know about sex and vaginas.