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Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 10:56:04 No.22241093 View View Reply Original Report

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How the fuck do normies just flow through life and important goals like sex and relationship with a girl that are unattainable to me just happen to them by virtue of existing?

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 11:00:49 No.22241094 Report

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destiny. god programmed them this way. he created you ugly, loner, autist, poor.

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Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 11:03:47 No.22241095 Report

Quoted By: >>22241096 >>22241098 >>22241115

I lost my virginity to an escort, and had sex with a different one a week later, and since then I've had about six opportunities to have sex with women who I've met through parties, clubs etc. without having to pay them, but for some reason when we are about to have sex I get really sad and back out. What is causing that, and how do I fix it?

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 11:05:09 No.22241096 Report

Quoted By: >>22241097

>>22241095
Lmr

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 11:05:27 No.22241097 Report

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>>22241096
Lmr?

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 11:16:39 No.22241098 Report

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>>22241095
were you raised religious?

Anonymous

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Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 11:22:03 No.22241099 Report

Quoted By: >>22241100 >>22241143

>>22241093
Nobody is perfect. You complete some milestones (social spooks, but I digress) earlier than others, and some milestones later than others. The guy who is great at hookups might not be great at relationships, or financial literacy, might not have a career plan, etc. If you look at life like a totem pole, where some people are above you and some are below you, you'll only compare the people above you by what you haven't accomplished. It's a mental self-suffering engine.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 11:28:03 No.22241100 Report

Quoted By: >>22241111

>>22241099
Most chads I know are also financially successful and nice people.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 11:28:34 No.22241101 Report

Quoted By: >>22241102 >>22241118

>>22241093
by being attractive

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 11:36:06 No.22241102 Report

Quoted By: >>22241103

>>22241101
Normies aren't attractive though. They're just ordinary

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 11:42:31 No.22241103 Report

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>>22241102
attractiveness isn't just about looks, anon. It's for sure part of it, but it's not everything.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 11:42:36 No.22241104 Report

Quoted By: >>22241105 >>22241107 >>22241143

It was never for the likes of us. I think there's something with me that makes me fundamentally incompatible with normalfags. I don't like them and they don't like me. I don't care about Kendrick Lamar, i don't care about Game of Thrones, i don't want to "go hang out" in groups of 10 at the beach. I don't want to go on vacations. I'm a freak, a freak in the sense that i just don't fit in.

>1st Corinthians 25-28 The Master did not give explicit direction regarding virgins, but as one much experienced in the mercy of the Master and loyal to him all the way, you can trust my counsel. Because of the current pressures on us from all sides, I think it would probably be best to stay just as you are. Are you married? Stay married. Are you unmarried? Don’t get married. But there’s certainly no sin in getting married, whether you’re a virgin or not. All I am saying is that when you marry, you take on additional stress in an already stressful time, and I want to spare you if possible.

While i am not Christian, i think there's wisdom in this.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 11:46:39 No.22241105 Report

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>>22241104
Bless you, Norgeanon. I hope you find happiness in all walks of life

Anonymous

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Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 11:48:41 No.22241106 Report

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>>22241105
I won't, as Job says: Life is short and full of trouble.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 11:48:55 No.22241107 Report

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>>22241104
same. I feel like an alien to the human race sometimes

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 11:50:52 No.22241108 Report

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>>22241107
Even just thinking about having a GF stresses me out. I don't understand how normalfags can imagine it with such excitement. I can only think of the endless shit testing, drama, bickering and bitching. With the occasional sexy time. I am essentially giving up my peace of mind and freedom to bust a nut a couple of times a week if i've been a good boy.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 11:51:27 No.22241109 Report

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>>22241093
by going for the ugly ones

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 11:54:13 No.22241110 Report

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>>22241106
respekt norgebror

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 12:00:22 No.22241111 Report

Quoted By: >>22241119

>>22241100
how many 'chads' do you know?

Anonymous

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Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 12:00:59 No.22241112 Report

Quoted By: >>22241113 >>22241116 >>22241120 >>22241139 >>22241141

They literally don't do this, their parents teach them this stuff. Growing up I was mentally ill/weird but 7 years later after cutting contact with abusive parents I am now a normalfag and realise I was normal back then, this is just what normal looks like if you're raised by awful parents. Echoing this I am now at medical school and recently finished an attachment at centre for mentally ill children.

The overwhelming majority of the time it was obvious the parents played a huge role. I swear to sneed there was not a single child from a married original parents couple not reliant on benefits/welfare and without any blatant red flags. Single parents, teen parents, domestic violence, drug addiction, unemployment/benefits reliant, mental illness or other clear red flags of shit home environment were massively over-represented.

Obviously people still have chad or autist tendencies but I feel as if it's extremely rare to become a full on autist like chris chan without shit parents.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 12:02:55 No.22241113 Report

Quoted By: >>22241117

>>22241112
You were never a true incel

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 12:03:47 No.22241114 Report

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>>22241093
Classic image. Although he should've pointed out the narcissism more

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 12:05:50 No.22241115 Report

Quoted By: >>22241143

>>22241095
>What is causing that
>I lost my virginity to an escort, and had sex with a different one a week later

>and how do I fix it?
Move on and it will fade away, eventually. It's guilt you internalized when you decided to pay (lose your virginity, even) for sex, it warped your perception of women and it came back every time you tried to have a normal relationship with normal women.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 12:06:49 No.22241116 Report

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>>22241112
No arrow therefore you look like this and say this

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 12:07:38 No.22241117 Report

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>>22241113
That's my point bro, barely anyone is. Most the complete autists on 4chan would just be eccentric/weird normies if they were raised in a better environment.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 12:08:01 No.22241118 Report

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>>22241101
Looks don't really matter unless someone's hyper ugly or hyper handsome
Social skills are everything in teens and 20s and later money plays a factor

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 12:09:31 No.22241119 Report

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>>22241111
I'd say half a dozen but it depends on what you consider a chad

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 13:10:12 No.22241120 Report

Quoted By: >>22241166

>>22241112
You are a plague called "failed normalfags"

Self-aware loser

Self-aware loser Sat 01 Mar 2025 13:36:28 No.22241121 Report

Quoted By: >>22241122 >>22241129

>>22241093
>just flow through life
They don't. They have to make tough decisions, they have to leave their comfort zones, they exposed themselves to failure.

Your mistake is thinking that good things fall on people's lap. That's the loser mindset. The writer of that post is a loser

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 13:37:55 No.22241122 Report

Quoted By: >>22241123 >>22241131

>>22241121
>people who think life should be a constant struggle
what causes this

Self-aware loser

Self-aware loser Sat 01 Mar 2025 13:38:49 No.22241123 Report

Quoted By: >>22241124

>>22241122
Because it really is. Resources are limited

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 13:39:59 No.22241124 Report

Quoted By: >>22241131

>>22241123
i see say no more pham

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 13:44:26 No.22241125 Report

Quoted By: >>22241126 >>22241127 >>22241130

>>22241093
>important goals
>like sex and relationship with a girl
oxymoron

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 13:45:21 No.22241126 Report

Quoted By: >>22241127

>>22241125
whether you realize it or not it all boils down to this

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 13:47:01 No.22241127 Report

Quoted By: >>22241128 >>22241134

>>22241125
>>22241126
ok let me clarify that for you.
The end goal is not to find a hole to stick your third hand into. Occupy yourself with hobbies and a job you enjoy. There's a guy in a random second world country who is sculpting the same thing for over 3 years because he fucking loves it and uncontrollably laughs when in company of others.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 13:49:18 No.22241128 Report

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>>22241127
and the thing is, that guy was originally an introvert, but once, he went to India (yeah I know), the monk told him not to overthink things. That trip made him really extroverted, and believe it or not, being extroverted is a big plus as an artist (he's sculpting stuff as I said earlier)

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 13:55:16 No.22241129 Report

Quoted By: >>22241131 >>22241132 >>22241143

>>22241121
>They have to make tough decisions, they have to leave their comfort zones, they exposed themselves to failure.
This is entirely not true, they were "exposed" to risk but in a controlled way that meant they were never actually at risk unles something horribly wrong happened.
Normalfag life is similar to a rollercoaster, you feel the rush of doing something dangerous but safely strapped down and with lots of security to make sure you are not harmed

People like me dont get a rollercoaster, my life is more like cave diving, a stupid pointless stunt where the risk is real and many others have died before

Normies play paintball shooting
I get sent to the ukrainian front line

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 14:01:40 No.22241130 Report

Quoted By: >>22241133 >>22241136

>>22241125
Never being able to attract a girl to have sex with or form a relationship is extremely bad when you reach a certain age.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 14:02:51 No.22241131 Report

Quoted By: >>22241135

>>22241124
>>22241122
Life isn't 'constant struggle', you just need to be a bit more proactive.
>>22241129
Incel niggas will construct some oddysean prose about the life of 'chad' and compare their own life to being killed in a warzone rather than just washing their fucking buttcrack.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 14:02:58 No.22241132 Report

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>>22241129
>they were "exposed" to risk but in a controlled way
Explain

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 14:04:34 No.22241133 Report

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>>22241130
he knows it, he's coping.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 14:06:48 No.22241134 Report

Quoted By: >>22241136

>>22241127
major cope

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 14:07:25 No.22241135 Report

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>>22241131
kill yourself subhuman.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 14:10:28 No.22241136 Report

Quoted By: >>22241137 >>22241140

>>22241130
>>22241134
>social expectations put onto me tell me he is coping with the fact he does not meet said social expectations

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 14:11:06 No.22241137 Report

Quoted By: >>22241142

>>22241136
it's not a social expectation it's a truth of life

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Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 14:11:59 No.22241138 Report

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>>22241093
>nobody EVER had to work for ANYTHING okay!

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Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 14:17:12 No.22241139 Report

Quoted By: >>22241166

>>22241112
>a full on autist like chris chan without shit parents.

autism is a born illness. it's not like you tranny yourself by choice and instantly becum an autist. likewise chads are born, not made. some of them really are built different with homosuperior jeans.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 14:22:53 No.22241140 Report

Quoted By: >>22241144

>>22241136
Sex is the reason why we exist and (by an existential necessity) we are hardcoded to give it importance. Other fundamental part of human nature is bonding with other people and forming groups

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 14:23:35 No.22241141 Report

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>>22241112
based?

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 14:23:43 No.22241142 Report

Quoted By: >>22241145

>>22241137
i need to find an actual job that's enjoyable first, a hole is simply a side quest, now go back to r9k

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 14:24:19 No.22241143 Report

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>>22241099
>>22241104
>>22241115
>>22241129
Many women gravitated toward me back in the day, but I was busy configuring Arch Linux and my personal Emacs configurations, so I ghosted them.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 14:30:05 No.22241144 Report

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>>22241140
it is not of that much importance though, there are other things in life
obsessing over one aspect and doing nothing to achieve that aspect then self loathing about it won't get you anywhere

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 14:30:43 No.22241145 Report

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>>22241142
Just because you are struggling with the survival part it doesn't mean the breeding stage is less important

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 14:31:27 No.22241146 Report

Quoted By: >>22241147

the jocks winning again chuds

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 15:01:55 No.22241147 Report

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>>22241146
>he dosent know
every single poster on 4chan is a jock pretending to be a chud, no one here is an actual virgin

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Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 15:51:56 No.22241148 Report

Quoted By: >>22241149 >>22241171

>>22241093
>tfw get into uni
>start dressing like a normal human being
>girls naturally talk me for the first time ever
>some even give me obvious hints
>tfw missed teenage love has already left its mark on me
>can't flirt back to save my life
>default to meaningless work talk
>every potential gf eventually drifts away
Back to playing vidya I guess

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Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 16:04:06 No.22241149 Report

Quoted By: >>22241150

>>22241148
it really is over baby boyo

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 16:12:42 No.22241150 Report

Quoted By: >>22241151

>>22241149
It's not that bad, the fact a girl wants to talk to me at all made going to classes bearable but I've witnessed plenty of guys my age get girlfriends in the first week of meeting them instead going through the whole small talk rigamarole like with me
Life really is the opposite of fair

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 16:14:55 No.22241151 Report

Quoted By: >>22241152

>>22241150
nigga if you don't get to fuck her it's all meaningless
you are literally their plan b nerd for the small talk when they're embarrased to be doing nothing in social settings

Anonymous

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Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 16:21:08 No.22241152 Report

Quoted By: >>22241153

>>22241151
Nah some of them clearly tried flirting with me but I just didn't know anything about anything
That's probably the main fork in the road between betas and alphas, if you're not willing to degrade or provide a little feeling of adventurous danger to women then that's the equivalent of the rollercoaster height check for your sex life

Anonymous

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Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 16:24:00 No.22241153 Report

Quoted By: >>22241154

>>22241152
>the cope ensues

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 16:25:03 No.22241154 Report

Quoted By: >>22241155 >>22241156

>>22241153
How is it cope if I'm fully admitting all my shortcomings?

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 16:28:09 No.22241155 Report

Quoted By: >>22241156 >>22241158

>>22241154
for the fact that you believe your teenage love that was missed out on could be somehow compensated for your 'extra effort'. high school is where females decide whether a guy can breed at his will or not. if you could not get laid spontaneously during your adolescence you will always be a beggar for the rest of your sex life

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 16:33:26 No.22241156 Report

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>>22241154
>>22241155
and women can always smell a hint of men's sexual failure, inferiority complex, and other losers' mannerisms in a milesecond. it's how they've evolved into the way they are now throughout millions of years of biological history. you can't hide your past if you were once an incel. it's literally over.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 16:36:11 No.22241157 Report

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Rape

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 16:38:42 No.22241158 Report

Quoted By: >>22241160

>>22241155
At this point this is just fatalistic terminally-online incel talk
You're very clearly speaking from meme infographics and no real life experience kek

S Sat 01 Mar 2025 16:39:38 No.22241159 Report

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>>22241093
I did stuff like that in high school and im one of you now. There are more like me on this website. I bet I could throw a football over dem mountains.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 16:40:30 No.22241160 Report

Quoted By: >>22241161

>>22241158
oh you will have tons of agonizing 'life experiences', there is no doubt about that

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 16:48:36 No.22241161 Report

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>>22241160
Your mode of thought is too binary to be casting weighty prophecies lil bro

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 16:54:26 No.22241162 Report

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>>22241093
Delusion. Both of those people tried very hard to get where they were. They spent hours a week practicing to get better at football/cheer. The football players at my school had conditioning at 6:00am 3 mornings a week and then another hour and a half of running plays after school three times a week. 8am Saturday morning they would do weightlifting and then run even more plays. And they did that while maintaining their grades because if their gpa fell they'd get suspended from the team. That shit didn't "just happen". Anons have to make up some fantasy to cope with the fact that you never tried, never put effort into anything. The football player got up at 5:00am to be on time for conditioning, while you were sleeping in. He stayed up late pouring over the play book to memorize each play, and doing homework after practice to keep his grades up, while you were playing video games. He spent his Saturday exercising while you sat at your computer. He worked for everything he got.
But I suspect I'm wasting my time explaining this. Anons have some sort of mental block that stops them from understanding effort leads to outcomes. That's why they're on a mongolian basket weaving forum still bitching about how high school was unfair rather than doing something with their lives.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 16:55:58 No.22241163 Report

Quoted By: >>22241170

Good socialization (ie growing in an environment where you're accepted and validated by your family and peers) in childhood is what i think i lack with respect to normies. When i was growing all my social environment was mostly negative so i became shy and reclusive, which had it's advantages, because i wouldn't know english and i wouldn't have discovered many things i enjoy if i hadn't spent most of my childhood on the computer but it also made me into a a total sperg.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 16:58:09 No.22241164 Report

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In school I'd have the CUTEST virgin girls straight up offering me sex. Nowadays I only have ham planets on tinder.

What went wrong?

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 17:10:33 No.22241165 Report

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>>22241093
Have you tried just being yourself?

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 17:11:03 No.22241166 Report

Quoted By:

>>22241120
Fairly sure this means a normie who is just not very successful but not a complete loser which definitely is not me.

>>22241139
It's both. I am surrounded by chads every day and they overwhelmingly come from the same sort of background.

Someone like Chris Chan could easily have been a somewhat weird but otherwise functional person able to hold down a low skill job, live independently and have friends and a relationship but became a giga autist because of useless parents.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 17:12:09 No.22241167 Report

Quoted By: >>22241168

>>22241093
I'm tired of this board turning into another r9k

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 17:13:29 No.22241168 Report

Quoted By: >>22241169

>>22241167
its either this or /pol/
no exceptions

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 17:14:45 No.22241169 Report

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>>22241168
seems to be the case nowdays yeah

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 17:18:48 No.22241170 Report

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>>22241163
my social environment litterally got worse and worse up until 30+

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Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 17:22:49 No.22241171 Report

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>>22241148
After uni there won't be obvious hints and girls won't naturally talk to you, actually you won't even meet girls anymore.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 17:37:46 No.22241172 Report

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Incels are only obsessed with teenage love because they've been programmed by movies and tv to think it's the end all be all of human existence.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 17:43:15 No.22241173 Report

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>>22241093
I'm a complete pathetic joke and my little brother is a giga normie and mogs me in every possible way. I hate myself so much

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 18:20:07 No.22241174 Report

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>>22241093
it's better to not have had than to could have had and not have had

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 01 Mar 2025 18:22:45 No.22241175 Report

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>>22241093
The just don't think about it. Ignorance is bliss.

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