>>2227734>>2227738Fetishes are most of occasion are eroticization of childhood traumas.
As no individual comes to life with knowledge of sexuality and learns it via observation.
Fetishes on the other hand, brains incapability of storing/shelving an experience.
Let's say when you were a toddler you were exposed to a female's nailpolished feet, smell odour shape anything if it causes a sexual stimuli brain handles it as 'this I guess is sexuality'.
I've met with people who were, real deal fetishists. A girl enjoyed the cuckold (or cuckquen I can't remember) thing, only because she witnessed his father cheating on her mother with maid. Being the observant stimulated her somehow, and her understanding of sexuality is that.
A guy with foot fetish, said his mother working at beauty saloon, and seeing that much interest on feet made him conceive as 'feet is important, good, alluring' etc.
Another girl with armpit fetish told me that, she used to sleep upon her father's chest and the she remembers the smell of armpit precisely.
A girl loves to feed men because of seeing her uncle at a dinner rubbing his tummy endlessly with happy smile, somehow she acquired this scene as sexuality.
It's all brains incapability, turning such events and naming them as sexuality.
On the other hand, porn consumers, this may sound like nofap psuedo-science but makes sense to me. Over-consumption of porn may need something more powerful to maintain stimuli.
Foot fetish or female domination porn, for example, precedes at this moment alot. Since anxiety is a great dopamine source, so many porn consumers end up with masturbating to stuff they cannot even comprehend post-ejaculation.
>>2227743You must have a traumatic event during learning pooping or something like this.
The remaining stuff is like; you should pause porn consumption, and see what happens.
>inb4 citationFreud mostly, and many psychoanalytic studies.