>>22361454>I think this is in every western country and not only in the UKWhat happened to meds being thin and healthy? Sucks if it's global.
>>22361455For me it's not so much sacrifices I make in a relationship I just hate the fact that my struggles were alone and I'm expected to be ok with a woman who not only wasn't supporting me during these times, but she also didn't struggle like I did. Stress and uncertainty of my studies and career, I dealt with alone. My victories I celebrated alone, returing to an empty house and the only congratulations I got for things I did came from people on the interent. Meanwhile how many women go through this? They likely had partners who supported them, congratulated them, loved them, etc. Now for whatever reason, that relationship ended and they think I should be happy they suddenly notice me after I put in years of hard work they never did.
I also have doubts about their loyalty, because why weren't they with me when I wasn't doing as well financially, physially, mentally? How can I expect support from people who only go after men who "win", one stumble and she walks is that it?
I also have thoughts in the back of my mind she had no problem ignoring guys like me when we were both young, assuming we would be waiting when SHE was ready. That just twists the knife.
I just hate that women ignore me to my detriment so they can chase other men, notice me when things go well and then expect me to be happy about this, when there is such an unequal amount of effort. If I have to bust my ass to be a certian type of man that takes years to make then I would do it happily, if she supported me on the way/early on, or held out for someone to reach the finish line. Instead I work hard for a woman who spent her youth on guys who didn't have to put in anywhere near that much effort to be with her.
The entire process is just insulting, the harder I have to work the more insulting it is.
