Incels nowadays always say that looks matter, that chad will always get the girls. That they will never bother looking at you if you don't have a six figure yearly income, if you don't have 6 toned abs, if you don't have a 6 above face. And yet, everywhere I look, the men who have hot wives have dad bods. They aren't even good to look at (they look like those chief tribes that are fat you see in National Geographic) but they consistently get the hot girls where I'm from. They don't even work out, but they have jobs, work honestly, and help around the house. Heck, they are soft-spoken but wont hesitate to fight if you push their buttons. They will never back down in a fight and will make your life a living hell.
Then they have great social lives and they have connections that if they are out of a job, they can turn to their neighbor-friend and in turn that neighbor-friend will help him out.

Then there are the youth today who swallowed the lie of the "redpill". They aren't even bad looking, hell, they outperform those "dad bods" by every metric but they're single, don't have gfs and spend more time online than looking for a girl. Most of the frequent online sites whining about loneliness or depression, or that girls don't give them the time of day. While they go to great lengths to get that "alpha look", the "beta" guy who looks fat and looks more like he belongs in a National Geographic documentary gets all the girls and shit.

What gives? I thought "chads" got all the girls. Are the youth told a lie? And if so, who benefits from all this alpha-beta bullshit you see online?