>>22755905but WOULD you save her if you weren't also in love with her?
if the answer is no, there's gonna be times when you run out of patience for her pathological behavior from the shit she went through
you should make sure your own needs are completely satisfied before you try to help someone so broken
maybe find a more fulfilling relationship which enhances your life instead of taking energy, then try to save her as if she were a child
idk
