>>22779126>The main thing is I have a relatively high standard now of how I expect to be treated and how many common things we have.that can be good and bad
it's good that you have a better idea of what you want, and what you expect
that means you learnt and grew from the relationship
it's bad if you become too inflexible, and discount people because they're not *them*
that starts to seem like you're chasing an ideal
the anon who said "wait" is right
let the damage heal, don't rush to try and fill the void with another person
occupy yourself and continue to grow
