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>be me >24 year old >dropped out of community college cause I was lazy, didnt care and only went cause my parents made me >make 19 an hour as a security guard at Home Depot full time >parents hate me cause I didnt finish college and soft kicked me out so I had to move >get my own place, $700 a month in a run down part of town >seeing this girl (21 years old) for a couple months, hook up a couple times >initially ignored her advances but temptation gets the best of me >went to the same high school, she was two years below me, this and the fact that she was popular and I was not meant we never spoke at all, we did know of each others existence since I played football and she did cheer >get her pregnant (her idea to have me nut in her and have sex with no condom) >she kept it for some reason even though me and her own family said it wasnt smart to do that >son was born June 1st, was present for this birth >I would like to be present in my sons life >kid has my last name despite the mom of my son not really liking me, only puts up with me because of our son >her family gives me a cold shoulder when I visit >dad might be racist towards since I am black, 75% to be exact, but im not sure >been nothing but nice to these people since ive meet them despite their daughter making romantic advances towards me first >took up a second job working nights, to bring in more money to support my son >dont smoke, drink, party or do any non sense, literally just go to the gym, work and hang out with friends sometimes
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>>22791213 >since I am black Lmaooooo!! Stopped reading there sux 2 be you!
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>>22791221 thats not very nice
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>>22791213 >they act like I ruined her life or something. you probably destroyed whatever expectations her family had, by committing her and yourself to raising a child together, but her family's expectations were probably insane anyway
they'll calm down as long as you genuinely have good intentions and don't be a deadbeat
basically just try to live a genuinely good life with her and they won't be able to fuck with you about it
good luck
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>>22791213 You keep working till you die
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>>22791213 Do you think he's pretty? He looks like an Asperger buddy.
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>>22791237 yeah this is sort of a reality now
you gotta either be okay with working as much as you do, or find a way to make more money without compromising your son's security
if you can't do that then this may not be sustainable, i fear
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>>22791213 You will get the college degree and become a wageslave. That’s your only option
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>>22791213 Is your child retarded?
>OP: I'm a nigger Well, guess there's really no hope then
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>>22791232 >you probably destroyed whatever expectations her family had dont know what those exceptions where. probably someone who makes more than me, but I have full time secure work and my own place. it could be worse. I intend on raising my son.
>>22791237 >>22791242 >>22791251 well I already planned on working a bunch, for most of my life. I dont know if school is for me though. I struggled with it all my life.
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>>22791213 If you're smart you should learn a blue collar tech skill. They're in massive, increasing demand and can be learned quickly and you make decent money can refer to yourself as a technician or engineer.
Good one right now is PLC programming (working with industrial computers). CNC or working ax a lineman are also options.
You should do something like that if possible. More money, more prestige, easy to break into, and the work's not too bad.
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>>22791262 >dont know what those exceptions where probably something unrealistic
you shouldn't feel bad about it, as long as you have good intentions
if they want her to live well and you want her to live well, it should be fine for both parties
>I intend on raising my son. that is good
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>>22791259 my son was born a health baby boy on June 1st 2025 at 1:05 pm. so far he looks normal for a couple days old.
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>>22791262 Have you ever piledrived a copper wire spool thief? Do they keep the big ass copper wire spools locked up there too?
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>>22791265 the only issue is im not good at advanced math. I went to trade school and I could start as a construction worker or start doing electrical work.
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>>22791267 thats for the advice again anon. im trying the best I can
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>>22791274 Are the spools locked up
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>>22791274 np
you've gotten yourself into a crazy situation, but if you pull through, it could be very fulfilling
right now is the hardest part in many ways
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>>22791282 Nah the hardest part is when he finds success and his bitch baby mama comes at him for child support so he still be living the same as he living today
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Imagine you become the manager of the black security guards. You making more money, but got a whole lot mo responsibility n sheeit. But u got dat money. Ur baby momma she finna see that and go>Gimme dat nyigguh!
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>>22791286 If he’s working at home depot I genuinely don’t think he makes enough to be eligible for paying child support and even if he is it won’t nearly enough to help the kid
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>>22791269 >only a few days old >wasn't born with harley quinn syndrome or some other fucked up shit therefore baby MUST be fine and DEFINITELY NOT RETARDED Be proud of your retard nigger mutt baby, anon. Don't say it was your bitch's idea. Own up and be the father of the house.
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Take it from a fellow brother u can always make new babies but u only got a limited amount of money to spend
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>>22791286 hopefully she doesn't do that :/
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>>22791293 Yeah I'm saying when he finds his success she gonna be there to chop him down to where he's living the same anyways
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>>22791493 you like prophecizing peoples destruction?
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>>22791492 She don't even like a nigga he's fucked it's ova
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>>22791495 No I'm just telling a proof azamattafac as it is. The unvarnished troof. Gotta be honest.
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>>22791505 Sheeit nigga u see them rainclouds it b ur fault u get wet u ain't prepared ong nomesen u shoulda came correck
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>>22791272 A BAS technician might ne a good option. Again can be learned quickly and pays well, dont need to know math, can be learned in a few months and is in massive demand
Some sort of electrician is an object but iirc you need a 2 year apprenticeship
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>>22791497 >She liked him enough to fuck him in multiple occasions >but not enough to be the father of her child. Women are weird.
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>>22791566 Sheeit wut if he ain't the dad
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U sure u had sex with her OP my nigga?
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>>22791213 you are black, you should know what to do as its in your blood
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>>22791639 At least he’s not going to for now at leasr
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>>22791237 Don’t we all do this though?
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>>22791213 If you are aiming for the steroype keep up the good work id say. Think jail is usually the next step
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>>22791213 Keep working and giving child support, it's the least you can do after raising another mutt to the US. Like what the fuck nigga, you had the brains to take the right decisions about college and work, you could even afford a place by your own, but you couldn't take the right decisions with that harlot?
Look, when you son turns like 18 or so, please take him to the hospital for sterilization. That's also the least you can do after fucking things this much
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>>22791518 thanks. will check it out 100%
>>22791592 >>22791594 the kid is mine. conception date lines up and I was the only person she was seeing. im sure if she was seeing someone else she would have accused them of being the father, not me.
>>22793557 >>22793602 I dont understand the point you both are making
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>>22793557 He ruined an entire bloodline. This isn’t funny.
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>>22793859 how did I ruin her bloodline exactly?
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>>22791213 They probably wanted someone better to be a new addition to their family and to be their daughter’s mother. You aren’t the worst possible outcome but you are far from ideal. You being an active father only makes things worse because they have no clear cut reason to be angry at you now vs if you were a deadbeat they would. My advice is to just stick around. You don’t need to prove anything just yet.
>dad might be racist towards since I am black, 75% kek you’ve already done better than 99% of your kind in this situation. If I was the father id be slightly upset if my suburban daughter had you as a father to her child/ your grandchild. It’s not racism it’s just natural feelings and acts that have to to more with social/cultural status than pure race.
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what position you play in football and why didnt you play in college
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>>22791213 Just move somewhere far and start over again at that point
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niggers look and smell like shit
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>>22795512 american football. played DE. didnt play much, was not good enough to play college even if I wanted do. fun experience though
>>22795520 I intend on being present for my sons life so this is not an option
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>>22795564 u must be fat as fuck i could only play wr or cb or some other outside position
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>>22795564 how much did u guys lift and weigh in highschool football btw
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>>22795626 im 6'5 200 pounds. in high school I was 6'3 175.
>>22795630 I didnt go to many team lifts during the off season because I didn't want to so I cant tell you.
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>>22797120 also I started lifting a ton after high school. during high school I didnt give a shit
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>>22797120 Okay thats actually crazy skinny i was 6'3 210 playing basketball in highschool and i felt a bit undersized. But maybe your highschool wasnt competitive. I thought defensive ends were 300lbs+.
>>22797124 Are you watching the game by the way. only real reason im up
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>>22797438 >But maybe your highschool wasnt competitive we literally won the state championship my senior year. I played mostly special teams, sometimes I was in at DE. Maybe you played vs bigger people.
>Are you watching the game by the way. only real reason im up nba finals? yes. son is at my baby mothers house so I can watch it.
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>>22797124 Nice I started lifting, well good luck with your problem
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>>22797559 the problem is getting better and worse at the same time
>since taking a second job, its much easier financially supporting my son >family still doesnt like me. >only can see son at my baby mothers house >family clearly doesnt like me and makes it an awkward experience >brining in more money to support my kid so finance wise, im fine Anonymous
>>22797547 lol state championship was my dream to win here. i couldve i think. but congrats anyway
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>>22797722 the experience and the experience during the game was better than the actual game. all I remember from the actual game is screaming. and flashes of what I did (not much)
