>>22965415First one is a she, second one was a he, third is a he, but used to be a she
Tricky isn't it ?
Well, i tried, but he clearly wasn't putting the effort or even try to, he couldn't understand my issues and quite frankly had zero patience with me at all by the end of our relationship, it became more and more obvious he stayed with me by comfort rather than love
I didn't want to work it out because quite frankly i don't like to " work it out " with anyone, love is a two-way street, it's like puzzle pieces, if you have to push too hard and force yourself into something you're not made for, you'll end up hurting yourself or the other
I like taking things as they are, not treating relationships like goals, because they never really work out, either because you're the only one working on it, or because you just can't do the effort or the other way around
My currently BF is insecure about it, but he's okay, we're in an open relationship anyway so it is part of the game
But i don't really talk at all to him about his feelings and shit, i don't want to stir that stuff again, i prefer this relationship like this, i don't think i can love him anymore
It's just unfinished business really, i don't have the guts to cut him off because i still bought him stuff i wanted to gift him, but now i don't want to see him at all, i can't look at him the same way as before, in fact i'm afraid he'll turn jealous or weirdo over time
250€ honestly that's not much for me, i handle my finances well
