>>23012038I feel the same way about being the one to approach first. Like, yeah, times have changed and it's probably fine, but it still feels kind of desperate. I always worry guys see it as unattractive. Thing is, I did approach first once. In uni, we had to do homework together and I’d go over to his apartment to study. I ended up developing a crush, he was Asian, smaller than me and I thought maybe I had a chance. I took the shot and it actually worked… for about a week. Then I found out he already had a girlfriend. Asian, smaller, the typical cute type. I realized I was just the side chick. He never actually liked me. I still feel like crying when I think about it. I thought I finally had a boyfriend, but it was all fake.
> i’ve lowkey flirted with them while pretending to be gay and ngl, it actually feels fun to do.Lol... don’t say that, they’ll figure it out. /int/ is basically yaoi central for my brain sometimes, I can’t even help it
