>>23472825She Already Knows Who She Is: A woman’s relationship with herself is her primary reality. She is constantly assessing her own value, her emotions, her status. Your obsession with her—whether it’s worship or anxiety—is a distraction from your own development. It’s a form of mental cowardice, a way to avoid doing the hard work on yourself.
Your Obsession is a Vacuum: The energy you spend dissecting her actions, trying to decipher her “value,” or worrying about her approval is energy you are not spending on building your own mission, strength, and purpose. A high-value woman is not attracted to a man whose primary focus is her. She is attracted to a man whose primary focus is his own purpose, to which she can add value.
The Antidote is Not Indifference, It is Sovereignty: This isn’t about ignoring women or becoming a cold jerk. It’s about inverting the energy flow.
The Simp/WEAK MAN: “Does she like me? How can I change to make her happy? What does she think of me?”
The Sovereign/STRONG MAN: “Do I like her? Does her character, values, and behavior align with my mission and standards? Is she a worthy addition to my life?”
