I just came to the conclusion that seeking a stable monogamous marriage is hopeless. Romantic love is fleeting, even if you find the love of your life you will eventually get bored of her and your bond will devolve into a platonic friendship. People back then knew no better and were shamed by society so they were forced to either stay in one relationship or cheat in secret. The social pressure to commit is no more so you can just be yourself and fuck all you want. The hippie gooners are right, just be happy and do whatever you want with your genitals as long as you don't harm anyone.