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>>23811811>Well I mean whenever I tried turning my friendships into something non-surface level I’m always disregardedi see
i've said it before, but crazy shared experiences are what build strong bonds, from what i've seen
it doesn't matter that much how much you have in common, if you haven't been through things together, usually...
i guess if people disregard your attempts to have a deeper relationship, there's not much you can do, but in the future you could try inviting them to do crazy shit with you, it might help (dunno though...)
>My current job trajectory is to be a librarian because I enjoy being an aide right now and I like the routine. Maybe I can try working out like you saidah nice
that does sound comfy, i can understand if it's not the most stimulating but it's good if you can hold onto that
and by "athletic", i didn't JUST mean working out, but maybe even something like fencing or martial arts if it sounds appealing
it could definitely give excitement, maybe friendships, and maybe the competitive aspect would be exhilerating too
there are tons of other things you could do to bring excitement though, if it doesn't sound appealing...
i used to run very often, it really gets addictive once you get good at it
the rush & clarity & time dilation when you're really pushing yourself, it's a great feeling
local running competitions can be fun, also something you could do with friends perhaps, but not necessarily..
