>>23831943>The most common theory is that it comes from racismI don't think so, but being racist probably helps. I am also a masochist, not very hardcore about pain stuff but I can only get off to being treated cruelly ever since I was a kid, yeah it's fucked up and it is 100% because of childhood trauma in my case.
I think black people are just the easiest symbolic representation of "outside society" if you're white and don't get out much. The "snowbunny" girls are just into black guys but they probably want attention from white guys too, I have a hard time believing that they actually care showing how inferior white men are to le epic bbc or whatever. Women just do anything for male attention.
Honestly, I really wish I was just gay. I like the way dominant men act but I'm only attracted to the appearance of women. Women don't actually like to be evil though unless they are rotten people outside of the bedroom as well.
>>23831947The thing is, it has nothing to actually do with race. We who are into this just had childhoods where we were treated poorly by female figures in our lives. The racial element is just a device to make it more "foreign" and mean.