>>23867926>I just recently found out she is shy to actually speak her mind because she cares about my opinion. Not sure if that's a red flag but it explains the lack of more than a couple of word replies that I thought was bitchyness.nah that seems fairly common, and it's good you found out
hopefully that can be worked around
things like that can usually be worked around, as long as both people have good intentions & are upfront about it
if she explained herself, that's a good sign
>using suicide as a way of adjusting my behaviourthis is a lot more concerning, though
i think that's almost on the level of physical abuse to be honest, a lot of people wouldn't tolerate that even once
it is up to you, just please don't end up too committed or in over your head
