>>23903534>For most people, they just find someone, and they settle, and then they call that love. You settle for someone, you're pragmatic (and then it's not so much a matter of the heart, it's a matter of the mind) you think "oh they're NICE to me, or THEY HAVE A NICE JOB AND BUY ME NICE THINGS. But is that real love? so if somebody is willing to do nice things for you, then you should grow feelings of attachment for them over time and call that love? it's just bullsit i thinkyeah that's kinda true
most people who end up in relationships just kinda do that until it lasts long enough, which is retarded and impulsive
the "pragmatic" settling
a lot of people live their lives that way, just "pragmatically" going "okay, what do i do next? now i gotta do the next thing" without giving it much thought, drinking on the weekends, etc...
but just because they do that & call it love, that doesn't mean it's real love, and it doesn't mean love isn't real
u can find love if you want it, they just aren't LOOKING for it hwich is why they don't find it
i probably write like a fucking idiot right now, but these things are true, i tell you...
>>23903534>but I don't like listening to others thoughts and perspectives on the matter, because I find that it seems like either most people haven't really experienced real love, or they don't really believe in love.yeah, your options aren't limited to what you see other people doing, don't worry
