>>23903711when you say 'the correct response', what do you mean?
do you mean the actual answer—that you're probably just a little shy, that you're not entirely certain when or with what to interject, due to a lack of intuition regarding the intricacies of social protocol, ultimately because you're poorly socialised and possibly on the autistic spectrum?
because that would be the correct response
or do you mean "what's a snarky way to refute this accusation which hurts me so, that I might neglect to redress the personal failing being levelled?"