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Here is an example, but I knew an INFP woman, she talked a bit about her love life and her past experiences with men, apparently INFJs like her for some reason, she's dated a fair amount of them, but she would never date another "infp" and also, apparently these days, she mostly likes ESTJs. I couldn't believe that, she actually like ESTJ men of all things. And I think, I tried to dig deeper into that, without revealing that I was doing that. And I think it's some weird woman thing that a lot of women do. She try to avoid talking about it and get uncomfortable, almost like they want you to think that maybe it's just purely sexual attraction and thus they don't want to discuss it because it would be obtuse. But I don't think that's what it is at all.
It's some weird thing that has something to do with the notion of practicality, at some point a woman just really desires a traditional, no frills, common place and simple man, that maybe checks all of societies boxes. A guy that can fix things maybe and is just really practical and basic. I think women do this a lot.
I really do, and I think it could be harder for men with qualities like mine, a lot of men go through this in their life, where they start to dislike or it almost makes them squeamish and they don't like other qualities or traits that run perpendicular.
Also another thing, I think the idea of connection. Well you have a strong connection with them, you have a lot in common with them, so that must count for something, that's a big deal, I just think that really matters when selecting a partner. But to a lot of people, I guess they don't really want true love, or at least they come to think that, that is not actually what true love or real love is. The idea of connection is probably almost seen as this really sensitive and too vulnerable or a thing and it's not taken seriously.
