>>23966098everyone says chasing women is terrible and you shouldn't do it, almost everyone warns against it, but a lot of dating advice seems weird to me, I'm not quite sure why but I don't fully trust most of it. I can't help but think it's something to do with feminism partially and the idea is that chasing women is often this big nuisance or irritant to women and a giant hassle, so they advise against it because it's just a hassle to women at times I guess and heaven forbid it just seems like nobody wants women to go through any sort of discomfort or inconvenience.
So it's like all the advice caters to feminism in this way. I guess it's true to an extent, there's no point in chasing maybe because most women would give clear signs whether they are interested or not, but I just don't think it's always that clear or simple.
Like with this woman in particular I know, it's hard to tell if she just doesn't flat out like me at all, or if there's some other reason like she just won't give me a chance, and I feel like it's the latter, and it's due partially to artificial social constructs and also the ego maybe, but if she just gave me a chance then I don't know.
But there's no way to really change their mind I guess. But sometimes, being incessant and constantly trying does work the odd time.
I read a science article that said women are aroused and they like being desired, like strongly desired, so it gives contrary evidence to that.
But I just don't know, like you're supposed to just trust a woman's judgement if she either likes you or not and you shouldn't force it, it seems that simple but the thing is I just don't entirely trust their judgement that's why, they seem like they can be really fickle or like I said it seems like it's just their ego or something.
I've had so many women who initially found me attractive and then just completely fucking blow me off.
