>>23977459Let me expand my side of things further.
Everything you are complaining about has been detailed by the aggrievers as part of their plan.
It is part of the plan to create this sort of aggression from the aggrieved, and leave people like you caught in the middle.
If the small bites weren't worth pushing back against they wouldn't be pushing so hard to make them.
You are not dealing with rational people.
You are dealing with irrationals led by a small group of elite rationals, who hope to force a similar irrationality in those pushing against them.
This is essentially a religious war without any formally recognized religion, because to be too organized and visible would make it easier to deal with.
To identify, classify, draw lines, and ostracize.
If you nerd out in the right directions with history you can see this pattern played out with all the same notes on different instruments a mere century ago. Its just fairly obscure and gets so nitty-gritty with details that its fairly boring to most people.