>>24012711Because no matter how mental some of them are, all of them have their own agency and nobody owes you sex, except for a pre-paid hooker?
Parts of my life where I didn't have anyone were brutal, but latching on to the first open vagina was a terrible decision almost every single time.
Focus your efforts on you and the things that make you happy and better off. Shoot the shots that make sense when they arrive, and don't be too hard on yourself (or others) when you miss.