>>249347the ball is overwhelmingly in the woman's court when it comes to dating. Most cultures expect the guy to do all the work and basically pay the woman for the privilege.
the only times a female doesn't have a bf is limited to a few scenarios, which often have to OVERLAP or there will still be desperate guys who would date them:
1) won't put out
2) hygiene/health/appearance is terrible
3) hides from social contact (IE never meets anyone to be dated by)
even women who are confirmed, outright crazy can still get a bf if they don't hit any of those three