>>262618If that's what ya usually do, yes.
Worrying about saying the "right" thing will prevent you from saying anything.
And if she ain't interested, she ain't interested and now you know and can move on to the next one.
Also, don't openly hit on or flirt with every girl you speak with. It's OK to just be friends.
Being friends with a girl means you get to meet her other friends, she'll introduce you instead of awkward approaches.