Make sure to bring extra spaghetti with you in a fannypack
>date gets hungry
>whip out a meal you prepared for her ahead of time, so considerate
>go to italian restaurant
>use it as a side dish, sophisticated
>BEST CASE SCENARIO race war breaks out, you use it as rations for a week of post apocalypse white baby making
She needs to see you as an alpha, a provider. Nothing will speak to her like hot italian cuisine.