>>2835514What do you need to be 'fixed'?
Is it an internal thing? Because then you have to do all the heavy lifting, but you can get help to find out how to do it.
Is it financial? Get a (new) job. If money is your problem get a better paying job, no matter how much it sucks.
Is it romantic? you're trying to hard. Give yourself a month without thinking about it. Every time you start thinking about it ... don't. Then ask someone you like out with the full absolute knowledge they will turn you down. Then do it again. Then do it again. Until it stops being scary.
Is it friends? Look online for someone near you doing a hobby you like. If you can't find someone, start a new hobby. Whatever people in your vicinity do, that's now what you're doing to.
Is it criminal stuff you did? Deny everything. Get a job a thousand miles away. Go to fucking, I dunno, Sweden or something.
You can do it. But sit down, think about what your problems really are and then plan how to fix them. Talk it over with someone, in complete honesty. If you don't have someone, do it with a bartender. They're obliged to listen to all that drivel.
