>>3433618Don't chat them up, just talk to them. Your whole problem comes from the fact that you see them as objects to be "chatted up", and you fail because they see you coming a mile away.
Here's a tip for talking to women - pretend you're talking to a man, and the conversation will flow much easier. Stop putting women on some pedestal and stop objectifying them. I don't say that like some feminist bullshit, but I say it because it will help you screw them.