>>3660993We didn't have sex. We did cuddle naked and sleep naked together, but no sex. Also checked for a hymen before. She was a virgin.
As for conversations, I was like you in that I am not a great conversationalist. So what I did was bait the hook by offering interesting questions on my online profile (where we met). Things like:
-Are you a dog or cat person and why?
-Do you support gun rights?
-If you found our child playing in the toilet, would you a)freak out; b) laugh; or c) get the camera for future blackmail material when they start dating?
The best advice for conversation is just be yourself. Sounds cliche, but if try to put on a persona, the relationship will fail. She should see you for who you are, and you should see her for who she is.
One other bit of advice for conversations is mix it up. Don't always bring up serious topics, and don't always put them off to talk about fluff. Talk about what's on your mind. Controversial opinions may scare her (or you), so approach this with caution and be ready to source what you say.
One final thought that I couldn't fit in the other post. But don't worry about fighting. It happens. However, both of you need to get out early on that if any fights occur, once it gets too heated both need to back away, go to your corners, cool off, then come back and apologize (yes, both of you say sorry) before calmly explaining your side.
Hope this all helps. I should write a book about this.
