Is it gay to tell someone you love them after having sex for the first time? I'm not a very sappy guy and it just kinda rolled off my tongue without any thought. We've been seeing each other for about 2 months now and have mainly just been going on dinner+movie dates. A few nights ago we were at the theater and things started to get relatively heated during Jumanji of all fucking things. It turned into me getting a partial movie-theater handy (didn't finish though). Finally when the movie ended we were still both heated up and went back to my place where we finally had sex for the first time. I finished and had one of those moments right after an orgasm where your brain isn't fully functioning and I rolled over and said "I love you". He looked at me, shocked, and just said "that's gay", before starting to gather his things and eventually leaving. We haven't talked since and I think I really fucked it up. So /bant/, is it gay and also, why don't people realize that sometimes it's a heat of the moment reaction?