If you had to choose, would you rather date an average to below average looking white woman with blue eyes and blonde hair (around 30) with a mulatto son, or an above-average to attractive looking black woman (around 20) with no children? Keep in mind that the black woman but has had white boyfriends before. Or a 18 year old chinese exchange student from a rich family who will love you but in return you must marry her and have children(Elliot Rodger and Emma Sulkowicz guaranteed). Let's say, if you don't choose, you will suffer deeply.