>>3975833>Validation comes from within. If you are unhappy with yourself nothing outside you will make you happy, so dont expect it to. Not even pussy. You're setting yourself up for disappointment.I've had a girl before. It was a relationship that lasted years. During that time I was a straight A uni student, I was working out every day, had a lot of friends and hobbies, and genuinely was happy. It just hasn't been the same since it's end. I'm none of those things anymore, so it's no question that another steady relationship is going to fix everything, at least for the natural life of the relationship.
I've never had a problem with getting women, but I've noticed a problem with people in the dating world. STDs is a crap shoot, so casual sex and casual dating is not an option as long as I value my health. And people assume it's justifiable to cheat.
I'm most looking for tell tale signs and redflags that a woman is going to disappoint me. And if the chance of that disappointment, through STDs, cheating, nagging, etc. is so high if pursuing a woman is even worth the risk. And if it isn't what do I even do with my life when one of main reasons I even enjoy living isn't a viable option anymore.
