>>4318217My mom just told me that when my sister was born, my aunt had begged my mom to allow her to have to my sister. My mom declined. My aunt and my mom are extremely close.
My aunt is not married, but she makes about a 100k/year job. She was making about a 65k/year job when my sister was born (30 years ago) and she definitely would've been able to provide for my sister.
My mom was making about a 60k job when my sister was born and my dad was making like 50k. They are both retired now
My mom had two girls before my sister was born, and then she had me about 10 years after my sister.
So my question is, what would you have done?