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Why do women love drama so much?

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:10:56 No.4322620 View View Reply Original Report

I need a hot red pill injection STAT.

Why do women love drama in their lives so much? Why are they addicted to all this negative crap all the time? Why can't they just let things go and move on?

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:11:19 No.4322621 Report

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>>4322620
Hormones

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:12:48 No.4322622 Report

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>>4322620
Men are interested in ideas, women are interested in people.
Hence why all gossips magazines are bought by women.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:13:11 No.4322623 Report

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>>4322620
It helps them to bond with each other when they talk about it. Learn to women guy

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:14:48 No.4322624 Report

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>>4322620
Women operate entirely within the social system. Drama is all they care about. It's what they live for.

You just have to accept that they don't think like you think. They can't relate to just wanting to be alone and playing a video game.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:16:05 No.4322625 Report

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>>4322620
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mwm7CvYL0_4

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:16:11 No.4322626 Report

Quoted By: >>4322628 >>4322660

This is why it's hard for a man to become a female, they literally have to role play their emotions.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:16:16 No.4322627 Report

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>>4322620
It used to be our lives were hard so women would talk about the difficulties of life to bond.

Now there isn't any real strife so they have to make it to bond over it.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:19:27 No.4322628 Report

Quoted By: >>4322629 >>4322681

>>4322626
That's why most trannies just try to act really calm and mild instead of acting super girly. That's the behavior men actually want (submission) - Not this hyper-social garbage.

Men think social stuff is boring, just like women think our hobbies are silly.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:20:39 No.4322629 Report

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>>4322628
Even faggots know how to be females better these days it pisses me off.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:21:53 No.4322630 Report

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>>4322620
Women are evolutionarily wired to maintain social order in the home and community. As such, their emotions and emotional sensory abilities are developed more than a man's. They stir up and engage in drama because it's the way to establish a social pecking order. Men are evolutionarily wired to go out and hunt for food. We don't need emotions to do that. We need drive, intelligence, patience, strategy, etc, so that's what we have.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:22:11 No.4322631 Report

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>>4322620
Because they are self-absorbed narcissistic whores and know that they can get dick any time they want

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:22:49 No.4322632 Report

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>>4322631
Thats not a fulfilling life for a female.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:23:35 No.4322633 Report

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>>4322632
of course it is, they get their jollys off on playing mind games

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:24:33 No.4322634 Report

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>>4322620
>In social scientific terms:
They have a higher propensity for negative emotions
>In spiritual terms:
They have a stronger link to the ethereal - that's why we have sayings like "woman's intuition" or "mother's intuition" - they make their decisions based more of feelings and intuition that logic and reason (because their brains a wired that way).
This gives them the power to intuit what their infant baby wants when it is unable to communicate but it also comes at a cost - they are more susceptible to emotional manipulation (muh children bans guns now, 10 sad photo's that will make you say fuck borders n shit etc).

The real redpill is when you go into inter-dimensional shapeshifting aliens and how women are more susceptible to their influence but this doesn't seem like the thread for that.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:25:13 No.4322635 Report

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>>4322620
Who is this for last time?

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:25:29 No.4322636 Report

Quoted By: >>4322650

Women are emotional creatures and need a constant roller-coaster of emotions going on at all times. That's why they always shit test guys. They want you to get pissed off over some retarded shit bullshit and then makeup with them.

>Women are the niggers of gender.

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Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:25:45 No.4322637 Report

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>>4322620

is it bad that I enjoy telling women they're utter shit, worthless, a shame to their family and that their family would be better off if they had a son instead?

I'm bitter and lonely but I have lulzy memories of shocked and surprised women after things had been "going well" "between us"

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:26:59 No.4322638 Report

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>>4322633
I dont know man, doing heroin was the best thing in the world for 3 years of my life. it sure as hell wasn't fulfilling though

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:27:41 No.4322639 Report

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>>4322620
Because Chad likes a bad bitch.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:27:53 No.4322640 Report

Quoted By: >>4322649 >>4322666

>>4322624
this is true for all women? ive been trying to change my girlfriends ways. i feel like a psychedelic could help open her up and get on my level i guess

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:28:14 No.4322641 Report

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>>4322638
I was addicted to opiates for years. Best time of my life

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:28:23 No.4322642 Report

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>>4322621
/thread

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:29:05 No.4322643 Report

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back to /r9k/

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:30:54 No.4322644 Report

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>>4322620
They get off on emotions, it’s not hard to understand.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:31:34 No.4322645 Report

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>>4322641
Not quite the same but I was addicted to ff11 for two years and it was the best time I ever had. Looking back, I can see it was a waste of time, but I'll be damned if I didn't have amazing experiences during it. I also got addicted to playing blackjack at the casino, and I fucking loved it. Sure I lost thousands, but Fuck me was it a good time.

Probably a good thing that I don't do drugs.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:31:51 No.4322646 Report

Quoted By: >>4322661

>>4322630
psychobabble for 200, Alex

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:32:44 No.4322647 Report

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>>4322620
when life is on easy mode. what else is there?

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:34:44 No.4322648 Report

Quoted By: >>4322652

>>4322624
they cannot be alone, otherwise, they would actually have to make decisions for themselves.

Women are like deer. They must be in a herd. and usually all fuck one master chad in their circle. Cause all the other deer are fucking that chad
It's just a matter of her turn unless she finds another chad with a circle of deer.

And if other women are doing it, it must be okay.

See how women think?

they do NOT think for themselves
When they do, it's all based on "emotion"

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:35:12 No.4322649 Report

Quoted By: >>4322653

>>4322640
Not all women. But most women don't have any real ideas and just pretend to agree with whatever you say. Most of the time, when you think you're really connecting with her, she's probably just being agreeable and not really understanding what you're saying.

If this sounds crazy, you can try testing it this way: Give her some kind of really insane conspiracy theory, or some kind of extreme opinion that you don't really believe. See if she just smiles and nods and goes along with it.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:36:43 No.4322650 Report

Quoted By: >>4322655

>>4322636
You're sort of on the right track but I don't think you understand fully; they want you to get pissed off over some retarded shit bullshit because that shows you care - that's why they makeup with you afterwards.

Women speak in emotions, they need emotional reactions otherwise they can't connect with you, I'll give you an example:
>gf comes home from work
>tells me about work dramas
>I don't feel like getting worked up over stupid shit so I listen without getting emotional
>"You never listen to me"
>tell her I am listening
>recount what she said
>she still doesn't accept that I was listening
Then I realized by "listening" she meant "feeling", they want you to empathize with them and feel what they're feeling (even if it's some drama bullshit that you'd much rather not get involved in).

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:39:12 No.4322651 Report

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They don't "love" it. Their brains have evolved to pick up things that offer instability to their immediate social dynamic. They pick up on things that men don't really care about. I mean there's a lot of ways their brain evolved to treat things a little bit different.
When men would go out on a hunt, the society left would be women and kids. Social structures are important to watch when thats what you're doing.
thats why when they get a bad vibe from someone there's usually something wrong with them. Of course, thats delicate wiring and can be fucked with pretty good growing up, comfortability is familiarity, and if a chick went through a lot of weird boundry breaking issues, she's likely to be comfortable with unhealthy things. and if shit got inappropriately sexual, her arousal is going to be triggered differently.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:40:56 No.4322652 Report

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>>4322648
The trouble is when (((corporate media))) hijacks this circuit and implements their own examples of what other women are doing.
>look at all these other women being sluts
>look they're all successful and desirable and no one judges them
>You should be a slut too!

God damn Jews and their propensity for psychiatry.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:41:17 No.4322653 Report

Quoted By: >>4322658

>>4322649
yea already aware of that. that's what i want to give her, more awareness of herself her thoughts and actions. there is hardly any depth to her thought processes

Anonymous

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Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:41:38 No.4322654 Report

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>>4322620
>Why do women love drama so much?
It gives them an opportunity to play dirty. Average women do not fight fair. They are not honorable.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:42:42 No.4322655 Report

Quoted By: >>4322657

>>4322650
you also gotta be careful you aren't just sitting there offering solutions, she generally knows what she wants to do in a situation, she just wants you to be involved in her experience

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:42:44 No.4322656 Report

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>>4322624
>You just have to accept that they don't think like you think. They can't relate to just wanting to be alone and playing a video game.

Average women yes. But being alone playing videogames is what I do all day when not working on my .com.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:45:07 No.4322657 Report

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>>4322655
Oh yeah big mistake, don't offer solutions because then they have no excuse to get outraged and tell you about it.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:45:12 No.4322658 Report

Quoted By: >>4322662

>>4322653
I don't think there's anything you can do about it. Is there anything she could do to make you more emotional and more like a girl?

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:46:17 No.4322659 Report

Quoted By: >>4322663

>>4322620
Women are scared of being found out as empty, vapid, and boring in conversation, so they need to make sure a bunch of talking points are happening to them at all times, otherwise they might have to talk about something that requires cognition.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:48:15 No.4322660 Report

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>>4322626
Men make better women than women. Fuck off with your blue pill, I don't want it faggot.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:50:19 No.4322661 Report

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>>4322646
Woman detected

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:50:41 No.4322662 Report

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>>4322658
lol i'm down to try if there is

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:51:33 No.4322663 Report

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>>4322659
truth

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:52:28 No.4322664 Report

Quoted By: >>4322665

>>4322620
Why do people feel the need to bitch on the Internet all the time? Why can't they avoid generalizing and just move on?

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:53:48 No.4322665 Report

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>>4322664
Woman identified

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:54:51 No.4322666 Report

Quoted By: >>4322669

>>4322640
no. she probably doesn't care about what you care about

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:55:04 No.4322667 Report

Quoted By: >>4322677

>>4322620
Because it's easier for them to talk about. They're emotion driven versus fact or observation based.
-a woman

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Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:56:30 No.4322668 Report

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i just want a brit qt with a thick accent

oldest ally please i beg

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:57:41 No.4322669 Report

Quoted By: >>4322670

>>4322666
the problem is the only things she cares about are work and scrolling social media

gotten worse over the years and now at breaking point where im going to find a way to "open" her up and be her true self, or end relationship

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:59:12 No.4322670 Report

Quoted By: >>4322676

>>4322669
does she seem depressed?

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 00:59:49 No.4322671 Report

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>>4322620

Because you associate with r-selected women from being r-selected yourself.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 01:00:02 No.4322672 Report

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Feelings are exciting to women. They would rather be beaten to death than bored to death.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 01:00:18 No.4322673 Report

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>>4322620

This is why:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E_XSeUYa0-8

The drama triangle is a psychological model that completely explains the motives of women and anyone who likes their drama.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 01:01:41 No.4322674 Report

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>>4322622
bought by women and fags*

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 01:01:50 No.4322675 Report

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I dunno when gf starts moaning to me I say "oh well" and go do my own hobbies and interests.

dont feed it, walk away.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 01:02:15 No.4322676 Report

Quoted By: >>4322679

>>4322670
she used to be mixed with some anxiety but that was a couple years ago and i see no signs of it anymore, but you never know...could be in there real deep

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 01:02:57 No.4322677 Report

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>>4322667
How does that even work?

Anonymous

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Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 01:03:04 No.4322678 Report

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No shitposting, it has everything to do with biology, developmental psychology, and traditional gender roles.

Women are generally physically weaker than men and lack the testosterone to feel angry enough to engage in physical aggression. Because of this, physical aggression is culturally seen wordwide as a masculine trait. Women who wish to assert a pecking order must create a way to be aggressive without being violent, because they both lack the strength to do so and don't want to be seen as a "lesser" woman for being masculine.

This nonphysical aggression is known as emotional aggression, which is also known as passive-aggression. It consists of:
>Gossiping
>Spreading rumors
>Criticizing other people behind their backs
>Bullying
>Leaving others out of a group or otherwise ostracizing them
>Turning people against each other
>Dismissing the opinions of others
>“Stealing” a boyfriend or girlfriend
>Threatening to break up with partner if the partner does not comply
>Flirting with another person to make a partner jealous
Now, men are also capable of emotional aggression even though it is typically looked down upon as catty, effeminate behavior.

That is why women like and create drama, it is their form of punching a nigger in the face and watching car crashes.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 01:05:26 No.4322679 Report

Quoted By: >>4322682

>>4322676
yeah could be. I would just do something exciting with her like a trip, and if its the same disinterested shit, i'd probably move on. but if you like her, tell her you wanna do fun stuff with her and let her have a chance

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 01:07:03 No.4322680 Report

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>>4322627
This.
They literally have to make up problems now. They used to be sort of useful: "while you were out hunting the lady from the next ranch over told me a wolf got two of her sheep!". Now it's like "I saw some weird guy driving around. He was in an ATT truck but I heard on the news a girl the next county over got raped so I dont know....".

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Spook Thu 08 Mar 2018 01:07:21 No.4322681 Report

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>>4322628
>tfw I've been mild and calm my whole life.

I hate being gay, women think in some trophy toy. I legit dislike women, guys are almost perfect imo. Also women are dirty in many ways imo, and they all grow up to lie, hell putting on make-up is a lie so they're born to lie

Guys atleast can be honest at times and they are almost never dramatic unless needed.

I dislike being gay because people probe why you don't have a gather you lie or be honest, most of the time if I tell the truth they treat you as a toy or like show n tell for their groups.

Good luck to those guys who find honest women, some of the shit I've heard or seen just made me more gay when I realized how much women really lie, I'd get stress just hoping to trust them. I'd probs be a women beater too if she cheated on me

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 08 Mar 2018 01:07:39 No.4322682 Report

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>>4322679
thanks mane

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:RindBhIT Thu 08 Mar 2018 01:10:29 No.4322713 Report

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drama = attention = reason to live

Anonymous

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Anonymous ID:Wtd74Fme Thu 08 Mar 2018 01:15:27 No.4323042 Report

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>illegal "redpill me on x" thread on /pol/
>full of replies
>thread moves to /bant/
>thread quickly dies
it's almost as if /bant/ sucks

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