>>43620454chan tends to be more direct with its insults although you do get the occasional cocksucker who tries to insult you while still remaining "friendly" which I despise.
Reddit also has a voting system which discourages any kind discussion, even the kind of argument you'd see on a ylyl thread. The less popular viewpoint gets downvoted, causing it to be hidden and ridiculed while the more popular opinion is insanely upvoted, and these reddit users are so incredibly stupid and gullible that this is enough proof for it to be the correct view. This sharply divides the community, forcing you to choose one extreme or the other, depending on whether you want countless upvotes or downvotes.