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Anonymous ID:MF3qxgl1 Tue 20 Mar 2018 20:04:53 No.4480928 View View Reply Original Report

Quoted By: >>4480931 >>4480938 >>4480961 >>4480979 >>4480988 >>4481000 >>4481054

Has anyone here actually changed your life?

>how long did it take
>what did you do to change your life
>how does it feel
>how did it effect your life

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:01BeKxTU Tue 20 Mar 2018 20:05:10 No.4480931 Report

Quoted By: >>4480939

>>4480928
no i havent

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:DAE5JU1s Tue 20 Mar 2018 20:06:01 No.4480938 Report

Quoted By:

>>4480928
no

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:MF3qxgl1 Tue 20 Mar 2018 20:06:08 No.4480939 Report

Quoted By: >>4480948 >>4480956

>>4480931
Is it possible for anyone to actually change their life, or is it something that only a few have in them?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:01BeKxTU Tue 20 Mar 2018 20:06:43 No.4480948 Report

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>>4480939
latter

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:DAE5JU1s Tue 20 Mar 2018 20:07:46 No.4480956 Report

Quoted By: >>4480971

>>4480939
outside factors can definitely change a person's life,whether they can do it on their own,well I haven't been able to

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:dAKQBUXj Tue 20 Mar 2018 20:08:14 No.4480961 Report

Quoted By:

>>4480928
If trying to make better life choices on a regular base and trying to ascend as a person. I guess

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:MF3qxgl1 Tue 20 Mar 2018 20:10:14 No.4480971 Report

Quoted By: >>4481012

>>4480956
I think that we have the choice to change ourselves, internally, but you can only do this at a young age.
Once you reach adulthood you can't change yourself, everything that makes you you is defined by what you decide to do as a teen and child.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:ZBeUJUj/ Tue 20 Mar 2018 20:10:50 No.4480979 Report

Quoted By: >>4481004 >>4481010 >>4481041

>>4480928
Twice. Late 16, I started really getting into chemistry. This is because my teacher was so great. I started getting much more interested in most areas of school and my grades shot up. Suddenly reading was easier and faster, math was fully within my grasp, and there was no course I couldn't outdo others in.
The next time it happened was at 18. I had recently finished a summer job digging holes and spreading mulch, and my dad had been stressing out more and more at me recently. I started letting my grades drop, started hating living in my parent's house more and more, and eventually just locked myself in my room and used the internet for entertainment. Eventually my grades became such a problem that my dad forced a confrontation and, after lying to him, I got kicked out of the house. Now I'm a borderline NEET and live in my grandparent's house.

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Anonymous ID:0kG6CTLR Tue 20 Mar 2018 20:11:31 No.4480988 Report

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>>4480928
Yes. You.
> 30 seconds
>I'm now posting using a computer instead of an iPhone.
> Bad
> I am sad now because of it.

Anonymous

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Anonymous ID:HT+YcIF/ Tue 20 Mar 2018 20:13:36 No.4481000 Report

Quoted By: >>4481027

>>4480928
Tsumugi poster talks me out of suicde/depression usually
he's the best.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:MF3qxgl1 Tue 20 Mar 2018 20:13:47 No.4481004 Report

Quoted By: >>4481030

>>4480979
How old are you now? You were basically on your way to making it bro. Why did the summer job and your dad snapping at you let it all go to waste man

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:4pTLNWSW Tue 20 Mar 2018 20:14:48 No.4481010 Report

Quoted By: >>4481030

>>4480979
All within the span of two years , what the absoloute fuck

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Anonymous ID:DAE5JU1s Tue 20 Mar 2018 20:14:52 No.4481012 Report

Quoted By:

>>4480971
Id like to disagree but personal evidence shows otherwise

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:8NVqk5Ly Tue 20 Mar 2018 20:15:46 No.4481021 Report

Quoted By:

One step at a time

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:MF3qxgl1 Tue 20 Mar 2018 20:16:23 No.4481027 Report

Quoted By:

>>4481000
Why are you suicidal?
I'm not at that stage yet, but every waking day is boring for me, and I look at other people having success and I feel jealous.
"Why them?" "why did God make me this way*" why can't I change my shit habits" are questions I always ask myself and it plunges me deeper and deeper into the depths of despair.
I don't want to be like this though man I fucking hate it. Idk what's wrong with me

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:ZBeUJUj/ Tue 20 Mar 2018 20:17:08 No.4481030 Report

Quoted By: >>4481053

>>4481010
Yeah my dad is both a great man and a horrible man for my health
>>4481004
Because I was getting more and more scared of him (he's very strong and very aggressive). The forced confrontation caused me to lose my shit and do stuff I wouldn't normally do. I'm 19 now.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:DAE5JU1s Tue 20 Mar 2018 20:18:44 No.4481041 Report

Quoted By: >>4481058

>>4480979
wew I can relate it really feels bad doesn't it?
could have done something but still failed somehow

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:MF3qxgl1 Tue 20 Mar 2018 20:20:17 No.4481053 Report

Quoted By:

>>4481030
It's not too late to change your life.
Imo you have until you're 25 to actually change, the final cut off is 30 though.
Imo it's advised to have everything figured out by 25 (almost done schooling , try and get in good shape, social networking, etc)
If you miss the 25 mark then you only have 5 years to sort everything out.
If you haven't figured out your life by 30then you're a lost cause.
I'm quickly approaching the 25 mark...

normalfag

normalfag ID:pVWFBqwN Tue 20 Mar 2018 20:20:38 No.4481054 Report

Quoted By:

>>4480928
yes
>>still takes, I am still in a changing process but most objectives have been accomplished. but I've been 3 years and 1 month in the "changing" road
>>jump out of the couch and get a job, for starters. then got a gf, got dumped and got a better one, finished my university degree and started ascending at my job by focusing on it as fuck
>>good as shit. no more worries. calmed all day long, thinking clearly on what to accomplish next
>>positively.

it takes time and pain. if there is no pain you are not changing. but doing the same everyday and expecting different results won't work.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:ZBeUJUj/ Tue 20 Mar 2018 20:20:57 No.4481058 Report

Quoted By: >>4481081 >>4481084

>>4481041
It's not so bad, I still retain good reading comprehension. But yeah, I want a reset button.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:MF3qxgl1 Tue 20 Mar 2018 20:23:38 No.4481081 Report

Quoted By:

>>4481058
I wonder if when we die if we reset, but we have no memory of our precious life, or if when we die that's it.

Or maybe we remember about our previous life but only during the first bit of our life. Then once we stop being a baby (6 months old) all memory of our previous life are forgotten

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Anonymous ID:DAE5JU1s Tue 20 Mar 2018 20:23:54 No.4481084 Report

Quoted By:

>>4481058
I get thoughts like this at night occasionally,how I could have done things differently

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